Q: What can I do to stop my young child’s temper tantrums? Graeme: Tantrums can be exhausting, but very informative. It is not uncommon for young kids to struggle with managing their overwhelming feelings of anger, frustration, and disappointment. But there is always something behind the thoughts and emotions. Here […]

Q: I never experienced any real traditions and good Christmas memories as a child. It was just transactional – once the presents were opened and the wrapping picked up, Christmas was done. Now that we’re starting a family my husband and I want to change that. Do you have any […]

Q: I’m dreading Christmas this year. The whole extended family will be in the same place together, and there’s a lot of unresolved conflict simmering just beneath the surface (some of it involving my household with others). Do you have any advice for navigating a tense and awkward situation? Graeme: […]

Q: How’s a parent supposed to connect with teens when life is always crazy? My husband and I both work, while our kids have school, chores, friends, and all sorts of activities. Everybody in our house is constantly coming and going. Help! Graeme: My three girls are teenagers now, so […]

Q: My wife and I have decent incomes, but neither of us has ever been all that great at making informed financial decisions. I feel like most of the time we’re just winging it. Do you have any practical insights for managing our resources well? Graeme: Realistically, I don’t think […]

Q: I’m worried about cultural influences on my preteen. How can I maintain parental influence in a world competing to take it away? Graeme: The tide of culture can make it feel like your child is slowly being taken out of your hands. While it’s inevitable that your child will […]

Q: My wife and I love our three children. But with all the activity surrounding the kids, our marriage isn’t as fun as it used to be. Is that normal? Graeme: Well, I’d have to say your scenario is common. When you were dating, engaged, and then beginning your marriage, […]

Q: Communication has become an issue with our family. It seems none of us spend time talking anymore. I don’t know how this happened, but I’m concerned about how it’s affecting our relationships. What can I do to change the situation? Graeme: You’re wise to work toward reversing this trend. […]

Q: My wife and I are giving serious thought to starting a family, and now I’m having second thoughts. The idea of being responsible for a child is daunting enough. But I read a recent report suggesting that parenting often leads to unhappiness. What’s your perspective? Graeme: Scientists love to […]